How We Got from There to Here
What are the odds that Gary and I both ended up in California at the same time, ready for the next stage of our lives? We met in October 1988 at Julius Corsini Elementary School, got engaged in December, and married on June 26, 1989.
Our migration journeys were different, but we both ended up in California for our careers, me in 1985 and Gary in 1987.
I was born in California, moved to Oklahoma, then Kansas, then Oklahoma, then Kansas, and back to California.
Gary was born in Illinois, moving to Pennsylvania, New York, Montana, Missouri, Montana again, South Dakota, and Wyoming before settling in California.
Interestingly, Gary and I have a connection with ancestors from southern Pennsylvania.
My 2nd great-grandfather, Samuel Watkins was born in Fayette, Pennsylvania in 1818 (his parents, Joseph Hanslep Watkins and Margaret McElroy, were both born in Maryland). Samuel married Susanna Osborn in 1842.
Susanna was also born in Fayette County, Pennsylvania as was her father, Nicholas. Susanna’s grandfather, Jonathan, was born in Montgomery County, Pennsylvania. He died in Fayette in 1814.
According to MyHeritage, I have a potential 4th cousin, S. Meckley which means we share 3rd great-grandparents. S. has a tree with only 12 people and no additional sources. Her father, however, is also a DNA match to me, but he is marked “private” with no first name given. She does list her grandparents as Joseph Ray Meckley and Ida Rebecca Phleeger. MyHeritage suggests that our DNA connection may be through Nicholas Osborn and Rebecca Martha Smith (my 3rd great-grandparents). S. and I have no surnames in common and since Nicholas and Rebecca had 9 children (and those children had multiple children), it would take quite a bit of research (or S. expanding her tree) to see exactly how we are related.
Gary also has a strong southern Pennsylvania Meckley connection – his paternal grandmother was Anna Mae Meckley and this branch of the Meckley family settle in Dauphin and Lancaster counties.

I have been able to trace Gary’s Meckley ancestors to Melchoir Meckley (Gary’s 4th great-grandfather) who was born in 1775 in rural Mt. Joy, Lancaster County, Pennsylvania.
So…Samuel Meckley and Mary Ann Brestle (Gary’s 3rd great-grandparents) and Samuel Watkins and Susanna Osborn (my 2nd great-grandparents) were living in southern Pennsylvania in the early to mid-1800s. One of Susanna’s siblings most likely is related to S. Meckley, my 4th cousin.
Regardless, Gary’s parents, John and Georgene Coble, and my 2nd great-grandmother, Susanna Osborn Watkins, along with her 12-year-old son, John Calvin Watkins (my great-grandfather), began their migration west looking for new opportunities, allowing Gary and me to eventually meet. In June we will celebrate our 36th wedding anniversary.