What’s in a Name?
“Names have power,” Rick Riordan
A name is a gift that parents give to their newborn. This name has a huge significance because it is the key to the child’s identity. The chosen name contributes to how others view them and eventually to how they view themselves. The challenging part, of course, is selecting this “perfect” name that will have a lifetime impact on the child before the child and his/her unique personality emerge in this world.
Baby naming trends tend to come and go. Family names are always on the list to honor parents, grandparents, other relatives, or significant people who have made an impact on the parents (I was named after my dad’s aunt). Traditional names stay on the list with surnames now becoming popular as first names. Parents often look to books, movies, or pop culture for names that they perceive as interesting, positive, showing confidence or having other characteristics that they hope their child will possess. They want a name that reflects their values and hopes. Sometimes parents like the way the name sounds with the last name. There was a surge of individualism beginning in the 1960s and it became popular to choose unique, and some might say, unconventional names. In fact, the more unusual the better, though this sometimes created problems for the child. Creative spellings also became popular. Place names such as Denver, Brooklyn, Madison, North, etc. became mainstream. According to www.babycenter.com, today’s parents are foregoing the unusual and strange names and are selecting names “to project optimism, capture nostalgia, or firmly anchor their kids with classic human stability.” Today, traditional names, otherwise known as ‘vintage chic’ are making a comeback.
Of course, it’s always possible to marry an unusual name with an ancestral name and find a truly meaningful name. My 7th great grandmother’s name was Waitstill Green. Waitstill was born in 1685 and died in 1730. She was born to a Puritan family. According to www.names.org, “Puritans frequently gave their children names to serve as a lifelong moral reminder or as an expression of intense faith.” As such, Waitstill means “wait patiently upon the Lord” or “remain steadfast in faith.” Waitstill was a name that exemplified colonial America.
Now 7th great grandmother, Waitstill Green Bishop, was not the only Waitstill in the family. Waitstill and Stephen had a son, Joseph Bishop. Joseph (my 6th great grandfather) and his wife Sarah Bouton had five children. They named one of their daughters Waitstill in honor of her grandmother. This Waitstill was the sister of my 5th great grandfather, Joseph Bishop.
Waitstill Bishop married Justus Hubble. They named one of their sons, Eliphalet, continuing the Puritan naming custom. Eliphalet is an Old Testament name meaning “God is my deliverance.”
In addition to Eliphalet Hubble, there are two other Eliphalets in the family tree…Eliphalet Wakeman, my 4th cousin 6 times removed and Eliphalet Wakeman, my 5th cousin 6 times removed.
All of the Eliphalets are descended from Stephen Goodyear and Mary Gibbard who I wrote about in my March 1, 2026 blog post, An Address with a Story – Month 3 of 12 Ancestors in 12 Months | Journeying with Jacque.
Another distant relative had an interesting religious name – Epaphras Wakeman (1746 – 1825). Epaphras is my 4th cousin 7 times removed. This time the name came from the New Testament. Epaphras means “faithful servant.” He married Eunice Nichols and they had eleven children. In keeping with tradition, they named one their sons Epaphras and another Eliphalet.
Back to the present…we have two new babies who will join our family in early 2027. So, if any of my relatives are looking to gift their new baby with an uncommon but meaningful name that comes with a lot of history, remember Waitstill, Eliphalet, or Epaphras.






















