At the Library – Generations Cafe Ancestry Challenge

My Life in the Library

“Diego knew the dragon was alive the moment he touched it. Even though only a statue, and only eighteen inches tall, Diego felt a pulsing heartbeat when he accepted it from the author.”

So the book, Diego’s Dragon: Spirits of the Sun, begins. The author is Kevin Gerard and he visited our school, Desert Springs Middle School, many times to give author talks and promote his series, Connor and the Crossworlds. I was the school librarian and my Follett representative suggested that I call Kevin to visit our school. For many years, Kevin provided free author visits. We turned the visits to school wide events with lots of fun activities.  Then Kevin started a new fantasy series, Diego’s Dragon, and included me as one of the characters, Mrs. Coble the school librarian.

My character appears on page 3: “She waved and smiled. Diego felt his knees turn to jelly all over again. He wanted her to look back. He watched her so intently he barely heard Mrs. Coble calling to him.

‘Diego!’ she yelled for the fourth time. ‘Come over here with your dragon. We have to get some pictures. Aren’t you excited? You’ll be in the newspaper.’

Diego reached through the crowd of students, wrapped his finger around the dragon’s body, and left a crowd of unhappy admirers in his wake. Some of them left the library; others followed him over to the desk.

‘Now, we want to get a few pictures of you alone with the dragon,’ said Mrs. Coble, ‘and then of course some pictures of you with Mr. Sullivan.’

The students began ribbing Diego about his sudden stardom. He took it well, but now that Racquel had left, he just wanted to go home. He couldn’t get her out of his head.

‘Smile, Diego,’ said Mrs. Coble, alarming him. ‘Hold your dragon up. Good, now once again, smile for the camera.’

The picture session seemed to drag on for a month, first by himself, then with some friends, with Mrs. Coble, with Mr. Sullivan and Mrs. Coble, and finally a few with some other students. Diego began to get bored until he stood next to Mr. Sullivan for a set of pictures (Gerard).”

Okay, so there was a bit of typecasting involved…I perhaps went a little overboard with taking pictures but I wanted the students to be able to have a photo to remember the author and book event.

My love of libraries began early. My mother took me to the Beaumont Public Library the summer before I started Kindergarten to get my first library card. My passion for reading began early. Before I got my library card, my mother would let me pick out a Little Golden Book when she got groceries. I don’t remember ever learning to read; I just always could. In school my favorite subject was reading and I loved the Dick and Jane books as well as the orange phonics workbook that we used in first grade.

Reading was important in the McLeod family. My grandmother encouraged my mother to read. She always told her that she would never be lonely if she had a book. The presents that I remember most from my grandmother were books (Gary and I continued this tradition with the younger generations in our family). I still have a book that my grandmother gave me when I was probably about eight, Glenda of Oz; it was published in 1920. It was a magical book and I went to the library and checked out the rest of the series. (Of course, watching The Wizard of Oz was a yearly tradition growing up.)

Other fond library memories happened the summer before seventh grade. We had just moved to Coffeyville and hadn’t had a chance to make friends yet. We met the girl across the street and my sister Becky, our neighbor, and I began going to the library weekly. We would walk to the library, browse, check out our books, go across the street to Peter Pan and buy cherry limeades, then walk home. Two books that I remember reading that summer were The Red Planet by Robert Heinlein and Treasure Island by Robert Louis Stevenson.

While reading has always been part of my life, I decided to make it a big part of my career. I received a BSE in Elementary Education with specialties in Reading and Language Arts. Upon graduation I launched my 40 year career in education. I began as a Reading Specialist then taught 4th, 5th, 6th, and 9th grades before spending over half of my career as the Teacher Librarian at Desert Springs Middle School. (I also have an MS in Secondary School Counseling and a Masters in Information and Library Science).

As the School Librarian, I strived to get students excited about books and reading and to provide them with the research and note taking skills necessary for future school success. I focused on making the library a welcome and inclusive space for all students and provided activities and programs that encouraged all students to actively participate.

The Desert Springs Middle School Library

I was a librarian during a time of significant change due to advances in technology. I started with DOS version of Follett as my library computer program, but at that time there were no computers available for teachers or students. We had the old wooden card catalog – typing those cards was an absolute nightmare.

I loved giving book talks and felt that we accomplished much by having students create original content based on quality research and note taking skills. One of my absolute favorite activities was the Ancient Civilizations Scavenger Hunt that the sixth grade teachers and I collaborated on using books only. I am really glad that I was able to be part of so many changes in the library world and feel very fortunate that I was able to turn my passion into my career.

Sources

Gerard, Kevin. Diego’s Dragon, Book One: Spirits of the Sun. Crying Cougar Press, 2013.

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Wordless Wednesday 8/24/22

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Wordless Wednesday 8/10/22

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Help – Month 8 of 12 Ancestors in 12 Months

Preserving the Past

Who are these people? Where are they? When did they get together?

We were recently in Billings, Montana to visit Gary’s family. It was the first time in many, many years that all of Gary’s siblings were together. We’re scattered around the country with vastly different schedules so someone is usually missing. This time Gary’s mom, Georgene, spent time with me going through family photos and identifying the people in the few photos that we have of her family. It is so important to label these people now so that we can pass this information on to future generations. I am digitizing these photographs, keeping one copy as is, and making another copy with names and whatever other information that I can.

My mother was very interested in her family history. She and first cousin once removed (who were about the same age) began to send family photographs back and forth to identify the people in them. She asked me to create a book of her family history with family photos.  She also wanted help in determining if her grandmother gave birth to twins. There were rumors to that effect but her mother (who was the youngest, born in 1905) really had no idea if the rumors were true. Using only the free version of Ancestry and Family Search, I began to do some research and discovered that yes, my great grandmother Anthony gave birth to twins on October 13, 1897. Sadly, Christina died in 1989 and Otillia died in 1899.

My mother died on February 26, 2021. After her death, we discovered a CD that my Uncle Will created for her. My mother did not have a computer, only a tablet, so she did not know what was on it. I took it home with me and discovered a treasure trove of family pictures, most of which my mother did not have. In addition, when my uncle saved the photo he saved it with the names of the people in the photo as well as dates when he knew them.

This is one of the photos that he included which contains both of my mother’s grandmothers. It’s a special picture because there are very few of Sarah McLeod, my paternal great grandmother.

Using the information that Uncle Will included, I added the names directly on the photo for easy identification in the future.

Gary’s family has been good about sharing Coble family photos and someone labeled many of them which is helpful. This is a fun one of Gary’s grandfather.

I am thankful for the help of relatives who have helped me identify ancestors. I wish that I had been able to have deeper conversations with relatives about the past when I was younger. I hope that through the information I have and the research that I continue to do that I am able to help younger relatives learn about our ancestors.

The stories are so important. Through the stories of our ancestors we learn about their struggles and successes. We learn about the often harsh circumstances of their lives and learn the stories behind their survival. We are often in awe of what they went through and appreciate their perseverance and their triumphs.

I have been amazed at some of the stories that I have discovered through my research. Shortly after we retired, we moved to a 55+ community in North Las Vegas. I was one of the first members of newly established Genealogy Club. It was a wonderful mix of newbies and very experienced genealogists (a couple of members had been working on their research for 20 or 30 years). One member, Dave, inspired me with stories of his ancestors. He assured me that I would find the stories of my family when I started researching. This group was extremely helpful in providing some worksheets that aided me in focusing my research as well as organizing it. At this time I decided to get a paid subscription to Ancestry.com and MyHeritage so that I had more access to records. However, I still did not have a tree and had not done my DNA.  Soon after, I came across Generations Cafe and 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks.

When COVID-19 hit and we were all staying home, I took advantage of all the help that I’ve received and turned my genealogy research into a full-fledged serious hobby. In 2021 I completed the 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks challenge and created a blog for my stories. This year, I am doing the 12 Ancestors in 12 months challenge (though I sometimes write an additional story). I also got my DNA done and have started a tree for my family and recently one for Gary’s family. I discovered a family member through MyHeritage who lives close by and has been very generous with sharing his discoveries of our Anthony family. He has been very helpful in my journey.

What I have discovered is that the more I do, the more there is to do and learn. My next challenge is to try to find out if the Coble family legend of a Hessian deserter is true.

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Wordless Wednesday 8/3/22

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Wordless Wednesday 7/27/22

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Extended Family – Generations Cafe Ancestry Challenge

So He’s That Brother

The wind was howling and the seas were treacherous when a horrendous wave struck and a calamity was barely averted. John Howland was swept overboard. William Bradford recorded this momentous event, stating, “In sundry of these storms the winds were so fierce and the seas so high, as they could not bear a know of sail, but were forced to hull for divers days together. And in one of them, as they thus lay at hull in a mighty storm, a lusty young man called John Howland, coming upon some occasion above the gratings was, with a seele of the ship, thrown into the sea; but it pleased God that he caught hold of the topsail halyards which hung overboard and ran out at length. Yet he held his hold (though he was sundry fathoms under water) till he was hauled up by the same rope to the brim of the water, and then with boat hook and other means got into the ship again and his life saved. And though he was something ill with it, yet he lived many years after and became a profitable member both in church and commonwealth (Descendants of Henry Howland).”

And so, John Howland, became famous for falling off the Mayflower. In fact, you can read about this tragedy in the picture book, The Boy Who Fell Off the Mayflower, or John Howland’s Good Fortune by P. J. Lynch. Most likely John was actually in his late teens or early 20’s when this calamity occurred.

John Howland was one of the signers of the Mayflower Compact which established “laws, ordinances, acts, constitutions and offices for the good of the colony (History.com).”

John Howland was the more famous brother of my 9th great grandfather, Henry Howland. Henry and another brother, Arthur, followed John to Plymouth Colony. While John was a Pilgrim, both Henry and Arthur were Quakers. (Brothers Humphry and George stayed in England.)

Henry and his wife, Mary, were the 2nd great grandparents of Timothy Smith who I wrote about in my blog dated June 3, 2022 titled What’s a Pacifist to Do? (Coble). Timothy was also a Quaker.

(On the topic of Extended Family, my 9th great grandfather, Henry Howland, is supposedly a direct ancestor of Presidents Richard Nixon and Gerald Ford.)

Sources

Coble, Jacquelyn. “Conflict – Month 6 of 12 Ancestors in 12 Months.” Journeying with Jacque, 3 June 2022, https://journeyingwithjacque.com/conflict-month-6-of-12-ancestors-in-12-months/.

Descendants of Henry Howland, https://freepages.rootsweb.com/~smason/genealogy/howland5/aqwn02.htm.

FamilySearch.org, https://ancestors.familysearch.org/en/MTDG-2WT/henry-howland-1600-1670.

“Henry Howland II (1604-1671) – Find a Grave…” Find a Grave, https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/231207249/henry-howland?_gl=1%2Ad1acib%2A_ga%2AMjEzNDcwNTQxOS4xNjQ1MjA1MjE0%2A_ga_4QT8FMEX30%2AMTY1NzkxNzI1MC40MC4xLjE2NTc5MTgyMTAuMA..

History.com Editors. “Mayflower Compact.” History.com, A&E Television Networks, 29 Oct. 2009, https://www.history.com/topics/colonial-america/mayflower-compact.

“Howland.” MayflowerHistory.com, http://mayflowerhistory.com/howland.

“John Howland (1591-1672) – Find a Grave Memorial.” Find a Grave, https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/6613808/john-howland.

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Wordless Wednesday 7/13/22

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Identity – Month 7 of 12 Ancestors in 12 Months

What’s in a Name?

In the play, Romeo and Juliet, William Shakespeare has Juliet say, “What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” Of course, life is a bit more complicated than that. The truth is, our names are tied to our identities. In fact, “A name is your identity. It’s what people call you, it’s what you respond to, it’s what you understand about yourself (Scanlon).” So what happens if you dislike your name and feel that it does not reflect the “real you”?  Unfortunately, this can cause problems in life. “They tend to not be as well adjusted (Hedrick).”  In the article, 7 Things You Can Do if You Hate Your Name we are reminded that “Our parents choose a name without knowing the person we’ll turn into (Alison.)” If you decide that your name does not reflect your identity you may want to: “consider why you hate it; shorten it; use your middle name or nickname; go for a variation; look for an inspirational namesake; change the spelling; or choose a new name (Alison).

My paternal grandmother did not seem to be enamored with her name at least as she got older. As she made some monumental changes in her life, she decided to change her name. Her parents named her Fannie (or Fanny) Vandyke. She was born in Strickler, Arkansas on May 8, 1910 to Marshall Vandyke and Elvira Estep. Marshall had been a Union soldier with the 57th Regiment in the Indiana Infantry during the American Civil War. He enlisted on October 21, 1861 and was discharged on November 23, 1864 because he was “wounded June 23, 1864 at the Battle of Kennesaw Mt., Georgia. His right eye was shot out.”

Marshall was 33 years older than Elvira. (He had been married before to Eliza Carilton and they had four children.) Marshall and Elvira were married in 1896 in Arkansas; Fannie was the fifth of their six children. Marshall died in 1922. Both he and Fannie’s brother Elliott Cecil were buried in the Bugscuffle cemetery, four miles from Strickler.

Sometime after Marshall died, Elvira married Robert A. Turner and the family moved to Hoffman, Oklahoma. It was here that Fannie met and married my grandfather, Donald Watkins. According to their marriage license, Fannie claimed to be 18. She was actually 15, about a month before her 16th birthday.

Marriage License of Donald and Fannie

My dad, Billy Dean Watkins, was born April 1, 1930 to Fannie and Donald.

Shortly after my dad was born, Fannie made a momentous decision to leave her baby, her toddler, and her husband to follow her family to California and shortly thereafter began to call herself Delores Frances instead of Fannie. Anyone looking for Fannie Vandyke Watkins after my dad’s birth and the 1930 census will not find any record of her except for her mother’s obituary in 1936 where my grandmother is listed as “Fanny Watson”.

As I wrote in my blog post of January 22, 2021, ” Oklahoma was a challenging place to live in 1930. The stock market crashed in 1929 and Oklahoma was in the throes of the Great Depression made worse by falling oil prices (Donald was a laborer in the oil fields in 1930). In addition, Oklahoma was in a long-term drought leading later to the Dust Bowl. Unemployment was high and survival was difficult. Many people headed to California where they thought jobs were plentiful and life would be better (often found not to be true). Fanny’s mother, Elvira, had remarried after the death of her husband, Marshall Vandyke. In 1930, Elvira and her husband Robert Turner, along with her son Arthur Raymond (Ray), moved west to Turlock, California. In addition, another brother of Fanny’s, Claud, also moved to Turlock in 1930 after he left Panama where he was a soldier stationed at Fort Davis.”

After Delores Frances moved west, she met Elmer Clare Russell and they had a daughter, Wanda Louise, born in 1934 in Arizona. Delores and Elmer married on March 20, 1948. The application for the wedding license shows that Delores “Fannie” and Donald were divorced in 1932.

Recently, I discovered that Fannie/Delores applied for a Delayed Birth Certificate under the name Delores Frances Vandyke and witnessed by her sister, Virginia. Delores applied for this birth certificate in 1952. Since the Vandyke family lived in rural Arkansas, it is most likely that Elvira gave birth at home and no birth certificates were issued. (I also found Delayed Birth Certificates for one of Fannie’s sisters and one of her brothers.)

I met my grandmother, step-grandfather, half-aunt, and cousin once when they came to visit us. My mother corresponded some throughout the years with my dad’s mother.

“Sometimes we try to live up to our names. Sometimes we try to run away from them. But either way – and for all the options in between – your name is a crucial factor in developing your sense of self, and thus helps propel you forward on various paths of life and career. (Hedrick)”

Sources

Alison. “7 Things You Can Do If You Hate Your Name …” All Women’s Talk, https://lifestyle.allwomenstalk.com/things-you-can-do-if-you-hate-your-name/.

Hedrick, Michael. “How Our Names Shape Our Identity.” The Week, The Week, 8 Jan. 2015, https://theweek.com/articles/460056/how-names-shape-identity.

Scanlon, Kyla. “A Rose by Any Other Name: The Importance of Our Names in Shaping Identity.” Medium, The Startup, 21 Jan. 2020, https://medium.com/swlh/a-rose-by-any-other-name-the-importance-of-our-names-in-shaping-identity-3fed42b116b1.

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Wordless Wednesday 6/29/22

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