Homemade – Week 49 of 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks

A Legacy of Memories

Homemade treasures are a wonderful way to connect the generations. They allow us to keep our family’s story alive. Many items made by our family members and ancestors were simply the act of necessity. When I was growing up, my mother made most of my clothes. This was the only way that we could have new things. I have fond recollections of going shopping to select the latest pattern and the best fabric for that particular outfit. The memories are priceless. Additionally, I absolutely enjoy the creativity that my family expressed through these homemade creations.

Our Quilts

The first quilt was made by Grandma Coble, the second was made by Sally Coble, and the third one was a wedding gift made by Edna Hames, Sandy’s mother. The last two are Amish quilts.

Gary’s paternal grandmother loved to sew and share her creations with family.

Grandma Coble

Gary’s maternal grandparents were also very creative.

Gary’s mother is also extremely talented. She turned her lifelong hobby into a business and sells at bazaars and sells online at her Etsy store.

Often, homemade items commemorate special events. We were very fortunate to help Pa, Gary’s maternal grandfather, celebrate his 100th birthday. A special memory of that day was a unique memory quilt created for this momentous occasion.

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Wordless Wednesday 12/8/21

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Strength – Week 48 of 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks

Strength in the Face of Adversity

Many of my ancestors exhibited strength in the face of adversity. There were those who fought in wars because they supported the causes and wanted a better world for their progeny. There were those who immigrated from other countries or migrated to other parts of the country hoping to provide a better life for their families. (I’ve identified 11 ancestors in my grandparents’ chart who immigrated to America in the 1600s. Anthony Colby is the first ancestor of mine that I can definitively track as arriving in 1630.) There were those who managed to eke out a living by farming in harsh conditions. There were those who survived economic collapse and physical hardships. There were the women who put family first and took care of the home while raising multiple children often after suffering the loss of other children.

Some examples of these ancestors are:

  • Ninian Beall – from captured Scottish loyalist to indentured servant to landowner and businessman to commander to founding father to elected government official
  • Frances Bennett Watkins Lloyd – a widow who questioned British Law in the Virginia colony that stated that her widow’s dower became the property of her new marriage; when she remarried she insisted that her new husband give land to her son so that she could provide for her son
  • Thomas McElroy – born in Drummore, Ireland in 1751; immigrated from Ulster to Drumore, Pennsylvania in 1751; enlisted in the American Revolutionary in 1776; was refused a Revolutionary War pension because he was a wagoner during the war which was not considered military service
  • Maria Christina Schaefer Schmidt – immigrated from Germany; she gave birth to 18 children; when she died at the age of 59, ten of her children were still living
  • Anthony Colby – willing to suffer hardship in order to pursue his beliefs

The Strength of One’s Convictions

It was 1630 and Anthony Colby (my 9th great grandfather) decided to leave Horbling, Lincolnshire, England and the parish where his family had lived for centuries. As a Puritan, Anthony strongly adhered to the position that the Church of England desperately needed change; he believed that the reforms that had already occurred were not extreme enough and that it bore too much resemblance to Catholicism (PBS). In addition, since the king of England was head of both the church and the country, Anthony had a problem with the political situation. Anthony was part of the Great Puritan Migration and joined Governor John Winthrop in his quest to settle Massachusetts Bay Colony.

Anthony Colby set sail for the New World in 1630 with the Winthrop Fleet, most likely on the ship “Arbella” in the first wave of ships. This journey was very difficult. “For seventy-five days the ship sailed westward through gales, cold, fog, and fair weather.” Many passengers suffered greatly. They “were confined to narrow quarters, lived on short rations, and were without the common conveniences of life (“Great Migration”).

Life did not immediately improve for the Puritans after they arrived. Anthony continued to live aboard the “Arbella” for four months until housing could be build. Within the first year, approximately 200 of the 700 or so Puritans who were part of this migration died. Nonetheless, according to Governor John Winthrop those Puritans who “lived properly, maintained a true faith, and upheld God’s ways would be blessed and their example would inspire others (Brooks).” Anthony Colby and the other Puritans were finally free to worship as they pleased (though they were not known for their tolerance of other religions) and developed a reputation for being hard workers.

As an early settler of the Massachusetts Bay Colony, Anthony is listed at number 93 in the records of the First Church of Boston (“Anthony Colby” Macy-Colby House).

Anthony married Susannah and they had seven children. Their daughter Rebecca who was born in 1643 was my 8th great grandmother.

Anthony Colby received land and become known as a planter as well as a sawmill owner. Anthony was one of the founders of Amesbury. His strong convictions continued as he worked incessantly to have the new settlement at Amesbury separated from the town of Salisbury and become its own town. He continued to stand up for what he believed. “Anthony seems to have been able to speak his mind; in 1639 he was fined 1 shilling for being ‘disorderly’ in a town meeting. (“Anthony Colby” Macy Colby House).”

Gaining Strength from our Ancestors’ Stories

Learning about our ancestors’ lives can help us make connections. We can gain strength from their struggles and survival. “While history helps us understand the present by knowing the past, family history makes that past personal. Understanding what they experienced, and what they did, better helps you understand yourself (Copeland).” We can use our strength to forge our own paths.

Sources

“Anthony Colby.” Anthony Colby Born 1605 , The Macy-Colby House Amesbury MA, https://www.macycolbyhouse.org/Anthony-Colby/.

“Anthony Colby.” WikiTree, 6 Mar. 2021, https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Colby-38.

Brooks, Rebecca Beatrice. “The Great Puritan Migration.” History of Massachusetts Blog, 16 May 2021, https://historyofmassachusetts.org/the-great-puritan-migration/.

Copeland, Libby. Genealogy Provides the Strength to Persevere. Psychology Today, 13 Apr. 2020, https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-lost-family/202004/genealogy-provides-the-strength-persevere.

“Great Migration: Passengers of the Arbella, 1630 Genealogy Project.” geni_family_tree, geni_family_tree, https://www.geni.com/projects/Great-Migration-Passengers-of-the-Arbella-1630/5754.

“People and Ideas: Early American Groups.” PBS, Public Broadcasting Service, https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/americanexperience/features/godinamerica-early-american-groups/.

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Wordless Wednesday 12/1/21

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Thankful – Week 47 of 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks

Thankful for the Past while Enjoying the Present

We inherit from our ancestors gifts so often taken for granted. Each of us contains within, this inheritance of soul. We are links between the ages, containing past and present expectations, sacred memories and future promise. – Edward Sellner

2021 has been a challenge. My mother passed away on February 26, 2021 after a lingering illness and a horrific fall that she never recovered from. COVID still looms and leaves us with a lot of uncertainty. Life is not always easy nor is the path always well defined. Amidst this, I am able to find much to be thankful for.

I’ve spent a lot of time on genealogical research this year. My study of genealogy has made me more understanding and less judgmental of ancestors and relatives. I’m grateful for the sacrifices, opportunities, and perseverance of past generations. I’m thankful that I have discovered so many stories of my ancestors. It has been incredibly interesting and rewarding. I truly feel like I’ve gotten to know many of them. “Everyone’s life is worth remembering. (Mattson).” I feel honored that I am able to memorialize many of these stories for present and future generations. We are who we are today because of the past as well as our own choices, decisions, and actions.

I am thankful for growing up in the family that I did. Even though we were financially poor, I was given the gift of a loving family that focused on family and church. They instilled in me the value of living a simple life and encouraged a strong work ethic.

I don’t have a bucket list. My life has far exceeded what I ever dreamed was possible when I was young. I’m very fortunate to have married a man who has the same intrinsic values that I have. We support and encourage each other and enjoy spending time together. We have had the opportunity to travel (seriously, growing up I never imagined that I would go to Europe multiple times – I never envisioned that it would ever be feasible) and continue to enjoy many special adventures.

I am thankful that I am where I am at this point in life. After a combined 75 years as teachers, Gary and I were able to retire earlier than we expected. I am really glad that we were already retired when COVID hit and changed the educational landscape overnight. It would have been particularly difficult for Gary because as a middle school band director his program was totally hands-on and required in-person interaction.

Upon retirement, we made the decision to downsize, sell our California house, and move to Las Vegas. We like the desert (we are not fans of humidity) and Las Vegas offered a world class airport and tons of entertainment options. We found a house in a 55+ community with a nice clubhouse and activities that we can choose (or not) to participate in. Our house is perfect for us and provides the opportunity to age in place. It is one story (when we built our California house, it was my dream from childhood to have a two-story house) and we went from 2600 square feet to 1550. We have all solid surfaces, grab bars already installed, an open floor plan, and a wonderful outdoor patio with outdoor kitchen and two fire pits. One of my great pleasures is to sit outside and enjoy a beverage while reading my latest novel.

Sources

Estes, Roberta, and Vivian Cox Hall on November 21. “Thankfulness Recipe.” DNAeXplained – Genetic Genealogy, 23 July 2019, https://dna-explained.com/2018/11/21/thankfulness-recipe/.

Joan Griffis August, et al. “15 Genealogy Quotes We Love.” Family History Daily, 5 May 2018, https://familyhistorydaily.com/family-history/15-genealogy-quotes-love/.

Mattson, Bonnie. “The Gratitude That Comes from Family History.” The Family History Guide Blog, 16 Jan. 2019, http://www.thefhguide.com/blog/the-gratitude-that-comes-from-family-history/.

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Wordless Wednesday 11/24/21

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Birthdays – Week 46 of 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks

Sharing Birthdays

Want to have a little fun?

Check out the interactive map at https://www.vizwiz.com/2012/05/how-common-is-your-birthday-find-out.html. Just scroll down to the larger map and hover over any date to see the ranking. I was born on May 8 which is ranked as the 276th most common birthday out of 366 possible days (yes, February 29 is included even though it only occurs every 4 years). Gary was born exactly one week later on May 15 (though 4 years later) and his birthday is ranked as the 183rd most common birthday. Gary’s mom, Georgene, and my dad, Bill, were both born on April 1 which is listed at 348.

Birthdays are an opportunity to celebrate another year of life. As such, they didn’t become a special event until calendars were invented. While the ancient civilizations celebrated the “birth of a god,” it was probably the Romans who began celebrating ordinary people. We want to thank the German people for starting the tradition of the birthday cake (“Pump it up Party”).

I share a birthday with my paternal grandmother, Fanny Vandyke Watkins aka Delores Russell who was also born on May 8.

We moved to Coffeyville, Kansas right before I began 7th grade. On the first day of school, I met Janice and we discovered that we shared the same birthday and also a passion for the Donna Parker book series. I had all the books in the series that Janice didn’t have and she had all the ones I didn’t have so we both had the opportunity to read the entire series.

All through junior and senior high, Janice and I celebrated our birthdays together, one year at her house and the next at mine. We usually had slumber parties and her mother was known for her delicious and creative cakes.

I thought it would be interesting to see some of the ancestors who share a birth month with me. (My mother was born in May and shares the same birthday as Gary’s nephew and his niece has a birthday exactly one week after Gary’s so the three of us are stepping stones.) I checked my grandparents chart and found these ancestors who are directly related to me as grandparents with May birthdays (this list is incomplete; I have not been able to find the birth-dates for many ancestors and for others I only have the year ):

  • May 4, 1799 Oriminer L. “Miner” Runyon
  • May 16, 1817 Oliver Liggett
  • May 10, 1823 Otillia Endres Anthony
  • May 24, 1869 John Calvin Watkins
  • May 8, 1910 Fanny Vandyke Watkins aka Delores Russell

Historically, May 8 also has a reputation for extreme weather. “There have been interesting, wild and catastrophic weather events related to hail and other natural phenomena throughout recorded history on May 8 (AccuWeather).” As a tie-in with last week’s post, there was a devastating hailstorm in Winnsborough, South Carolina on May 8, 1784. “Several people were killed and there was great carnage of livestock and wildlife (AccuWeather).”

In addition to crazy weather, on May 8, 1895, “It rained large, winged black ants in Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada. Area roads and sidewalks were covered by the mass of crawling, slippery insects (AccuWeather).”

Here’s hoping this May 8 brings beautiful weather (and no flying insects).

Sources

AccuWeather. “May 8th: A Hail of a Day.” AccuWeather, AccuWeather, 9 May 2012, https://www.accuweather.com/en/weather-news/may-8th-a-hail-of-a-day/227208.

Admin. “Pump It up Party.” Pump It Up, 3 Feb. 2017, https://www.pumpitupparty.com/blog/how-did-the-tradition-of-birthdays-begin/.

Kriebel, Andy. “How Common Is Your Birthday? Find out Exactly with an Interactive Heat Map.” VizWiz, https://www.vizwiz.com/2012/05/how-common-is-your-birthday-find-out.html.

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Wordless Wednesday 11/17/21

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Stormy Weather – Week 45 of 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks

Two Memorable Storms, 1970 and 1993

“At Least I Wasn’t Golfing”

We hear these loud and ominous thuds. My mom and I rush to the front door where we watch these huge chunks of ice fall from the sky.

Did you know that there are hailstone spotters just as there are tornado spotters or chasers made famous in the 1996 movie “Twister” with Helen Hunt and Bill Paxton? Hailstone spotters often enlist the help of local police officers who will use their radar guns to determine how fast the larger hailstones fall. “If you are driving through the Great Plains and see a police car with the window cracked and a radar gun pointed skyward, you’ll now know what’s going on – just don’t look up (Warm).”

This unprecedented storm produced unbelievably large hailstones and one was officially announced to be the absolute largest hailstone to ever fall in the world (and yes, it achieved Guinness World Record status).

Coffeyville Hailstone Statistics

Date: September 3, 1970

Diameter: 5.7 inches

Circumference: 17.5 inches

Weight: 1.67 pounds

Speed: 105 mph

After the storm was over, pretty much everyone in town got a new roof. Years and years later, Gary was listening to the radio as we got ready for work on September 3. They had a trivia contest asking where the largest hailstone fell (this was in the days before ‘Google’ was a thing). Gary called immediately and of course responded with the correct answer. He won an armload of prizes (okay, think along the terms of a mug, sticker, and T-shirt).

(***Disclaimer – Coffeyville still holds the record for the fastest falling hailstorm, but on April 14, 1986 Bangladesh ‘won’ the record for heaviest hailstorm at 2 pounds; no other measurements were given. On July 23, 2010, Vivian, South Dakota obtained the record with a stone that was 8 inches in diameter and weighed 1.94 pounds.)

“It Isn’t Raining – How Could we Have a Flood?”

Riverside County, California had a wet December in 1992 with lots of snow in the mountains that resulted in a heavy snowpack. In January Riverside County experienced a two week storm siege. The almost continuous rain combined with snowpack run-off created a disaster in Riverside County. “A bridge over the San Gorgonio River was destroyed near Banning and a dike failure in Whitewater flooded several area roads with mud and debris. Rising waters around the city of Desert Hot Springs cut off roadways leaving the city isolated (“Weather History”).”

Tired of all the rain, we were glad to head off to school with relatively dry conditions. As we were pulling out of our driveway, we noticed Jim, our fellow teacher who lived across the street, standing outside. We pulled up and asked if he needed a ride. He had been waiting for Irene who also lived in Mission Springs Country Club to pick him up, but there was no sign of her. (Okay, she had a reputation for forgetting Jim but that’s another story.) We headed to school but the street to get out of the complex was flooded, so we went to another exit. It was also flooded. We then drove up by the clubhouse but the water was shooting over the road while boulders were rolling across the road. Back home we went, called school, and our principal, Diana, told us school was called off and that they were currently making sure that all students who had already arrived were able to get home safely. We dropped Jim off, went inside, then decided since we were all dressed up with no plans we would drive back up to the clubhouse to catch some breakfast and see what was going on. Lo and behold, the road was mostly clear so we decided to go to the store and pick up some groceries and check to see if there was anything we could help with at school.

Once we arrived at school, everything was under control so we got our groceries, and made our way back home. However, things did not go as planned. The roads were again impassable so we went back to school to wait it out and put our groceries in the fridge.

Several teachers from the Indio and La Quinta area had arrived at school before Desert Hot Springs was completely cut off and were finding it impossible to make it across the freeway. Everyone regrouped back at school. They decided the safest way to continue their trek home was to caravan so that no one would be stranded. They tried all the known ways to get across the freeway, but failed. Back to school they came.

In the meantime, since we were right next door to Vons, a group decision was made that it was time for a DSMS champagne brunch. We got all the brunch ingredients and made sure that there was lots of fresh, hot coffee for the drivers. We turned this disaster into a festive occasion.

One of the teachers from Indio remembered a back way that might have potential in order to cross the freeway. They tried and while it looked promising, they weren’t able to accomplish the crossing. However, with a bit of patience and several tries, they finally were able to make it home.

Even though we lived closer, it looked pretty bleak for us. Eventually we were able to make it to the freeway (though not across) and took I-10 to Hwy 62 where we were able to also get home. This was definitely a unique DSMS memory.

Sources

Dillon, Jeff. Desert Hot Springs Tallies Initial Damage at $220,000. The Desert Sun, 20 Jan. 1993, https://www.newspapers.com/image/748992226.

“District History.” District History | Riverside County Flood Control & Water Conservation District, https://rcflood.org/About-the-District/District-History.

Gorman, Tom, and Susan Moffat. “At Least 5 Killed as Floods Sweep through Southland : Storm: Downpour Swells Rivers and Washes out Roads, Prompting Daring Rescues. Tornado Hits Orange County.” Los Angeles Times, Los Angeles Times, 18 Jan. 1993, https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1993-01-18-mn-1344-story.html.

Jones, Jennifer. “5 Largest Hailstones in the World.” Largest.org, 26 Nov. 2018, https://largest.org/nature/hailstones.

Ritter, Ken. “20 Jan 1993, 1 – Emergency Declared in Riverside County.” Newspapers.com, The Desert Sun, 20 Jan. 993AD, https://www.newspapers.com/image/748992130/?terms=%22The+Desert+Sun%22&match=1.

Warm, Luke. “The World’s Heaviest, Fastest and Most Beloved Hailstone.” The World’s Heaviest, Fastest and Most Beloved Hailstone., 20 May 2005, http://www.texasescapes.com/They-Shoe-Horses-Dont-They/Worlds-Heaviest-Fastest-Most-Beloved-Hailstone.htm.

Weather History – National Weather Service. https://www.weather.gov/media/sgx/documents/weatherhistory.pdf.

“West Reels After Series of Storms.” Newspapers.com, The Desert Sun, 20 Jan. 1993, https://www.newspapers.com/clip/88400539/20-jan-1993-wed-p-2/.

“World’s Heaviest Hailstone.” World’s Heaviest Hailstone | Coffeyville, KS – Official Website, https://www.coffeyville.com/345/Hailstone.

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Wordless Wednesday 11/10/21

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